Friday, October 8, 2010

A WONDERFUL TIME IN HISTORY

A WONDERFUL TIME IN HISTORY...
The world is changing, the universe is shifting, people are awakening, and we all experience the raising vibrational frequency with or without awareness of it. It is a time in History where we are all invited to look in the eyes of our hearts to see and feel the clarity in everything.
The truth is now unfolding and it is been revealed to the eyes of those who allow themselves to see.

Many people have recently experienced loss of material things. If we choose to judge, we can blame the Governments worldwide for letting that happen and using our tax money unaccordingly. If we choose to see the positive side of the occurring shift, and as we are moving into the Aquarius Era (the Spiritual Era), these events are opportunities for us to connect again to the Source, and to recollect who we truly are and the essential in life.


We have to remember that we are souls before anything, souls living a human experience. We have been used to take the material things for granted during the last century and more so in the last 60 years. The abuse of the increasing need of material things consequently led to the detriment of our planet. There is a time now to see what is essential and use our knowledge, experience and experiment throughout the ages to live more in harmony and in respect with our environment, with Nature.


Many times, I noticed in different cities or what became suburban areas that Nature was destroyed for the building of homes. Could we build our homes with respect of Nature?


There is this time in the now where we are invited to rethink how to live with more respect towards Nature, our planet and ourselves.


If we take in consideration the power of the universal law of attraction, we receive what we send out. If we send out the destruction of nature for our own selfishness, we will receive the same energy. Do we really want to contribute to the destruction of our planet and by consequence of ourselves?


Appreciate the simple things in life, the simple and essential foods, a simple walk in nature while looking and observing every living element of nature whether it is a rock, a flower, a plant, a tree, a crystal, and so forth.


These words are not a statement but only thoughts of wisdom that we are invited to meditate on.


Much Loving Peace to all of you.

Frederic Delarue
www.FredericDelarue.com

THE POWER OF SILENCE

The Power of Silence
Imagine taking a CD that you know is blank and put it in a CD player and listen to the power that silence provides you when you pay attention to it. You may think that silence is nothing, but in the nothingness of 'nothing', there is everything. Like when someone thinks he knows everything, very often, it tells you right there that he knows nothing just because he tries so hard to make a big deal of the little that he knows. (smile)

A great masseur in the Palm Desert Healing Arts Center told me one day that since he is blind, he was able to see much more than ever before. We should all meditate to this sentence... because of this, he is able to see exactly where and why you hurt. Isn't that the total truth? Our physical eyes limit us to see beyond...


This goes to my first Near Death Experience at age 12 when I realized that what we see with our physical eyes is only 15% of what is. Imagine if you were able to see the other 85% out there.  

Frederic Delarue
www.FredericDelarue.com

SEEING MORE THAN JUST CLOUDS...

  SEEING MORE THAN CLOUDS...   
On this day of September 28, 2009 I was working on my computer at home when suddenly I felt an urge to go out on my terrasse. Of course, as usual I looked up at the sky first and I saw an unusual cloud all by itself in the middle of this vivid clear blue sky. I started taking pictures, then like I explain it in my book, started to observe it with more intensity till I saw what normally the physical eyes do not capture.
I could see a line like a tail of the cloud, like an energy being originated from the cloud. It is very subtle but I took a picture because usually pictures sometimes may show things that are univisible to the eye. From experience, I learned that from taking pictures of spirits, faires in the forest.
Later on that evening, I played with the contrast editing tool and you will see what I mean when you look up at those pictures that I put online for you to see right here. What was so subtle to the eye, even by focusing on the subject appeared to be a spectacular picture. We do not always pay attention to what is beyond what our eyes can see. From my NDE at age 12, I knew that our eyes can only see 15% at the most of what is, so imagine with a little patience and practice the other 85% that is for you to see through the eyes of your heart.

Fairies will show themselves to you when you radiate pure love from your heart. Then if you focus in seeing them with your physical eyes, you may or may not see them. But if you relax, take a picture while communicating through the eyes of your heart, the fairies may appear on your picture ;-)


Have fun experiencing... Automn is a great season to do that.


Photos of Clouds in English

Photos des Nuages en Francais 

From my Heart to Yours,
Frederic Delarue
www.FredericDelarue.com

SAVED BY ANGELS FROM ARMY NIGHTMARE

INEDIT & PERSONAL ANGEL STORY

 --This story is not in the book: "Eyes of Your Heart"--


        Ecrosnes, France. At the time every single young man in their 20s had the mandatory obligation to spend one year of their life in the army. 
I had had one of the greater scores in a IQ test, which gives you the opportunity to request the department in which you want to honor your duty, and I had asked the army counseling officer to be a musician, or to be a soldier on land or in the navy. Because of the history of cranal fractures from the car accident I had experienced at age 12, the change of elevation would sometimes make me dizzy, like in fast elevators, therefore my doctor precisely documentated that the only department that I could not honor was in the parachutism. I could die if I lost consciousness in the air.
         When the letter for deployment arrived in the mail, I was very excited. While opening it, I read that I was being deployed 2 weeks later as a paratrooper in Dieuze, France (east of Nancy.) I could not believe it! However, I knew it might have been an error, so I did not stress out about it and thought I would explain them once there. It was too late to make a claim and not going would result in doing jail time. 
         While arriving to the military quarter of Dieuze, I quickly realized that it was not going to be a happy time/
year of service. Not only, Dieuze was considered as the highest rank as a paratrooper quarter (those being first at going to wars) but it was also a disciplinary camp.

I wondered "why am I here?" It was just horrible.

I was experiencing a physical manifestation of human-made hell --which is anyway what hell is anyway--.  Despite all types of crazy army training camps we had to do, from 
pretending being at wars with the enemy (to me, they were the enemy -lol), walking for days and nights for miles in the freezing temperatures of the winter in the east of France, from being forced to lay in cold mud, and sleeping next to each other with our wet cold clothes on the concrete floor of a building with our hands holding firmly our guns. However, even though I was lousy in most physical exercises, I was one of the best at running miles and miles with extremely heavy bags on our back, which was surprising every one. Among all this, the problem I was having was not the training camps but from the fact some of the sous- officers in training were finding lots of sarcastic and sadistic pleasures, beating us with their boots, and my common sense told me that it was not part of our contract at the army.


        I tried to send letters to my parents, that never arrived for being seized and confiscated by sous officers. However I grabbed my chance during Christmas. Everybody was eating and drinking heavily, and well too busy to puke all over the place in the camp while singing very loud macho songs we were required to sing (the type that makes a woman a slave and an object of a man). It was a ritual and an order to sing those songs loud and proud. What a folly of mentally disturbed souls! However, I saw this event as my only opportunity. I run to the phone booth and told the officer there that I needed to give a quick phone call. Usually they would refuse me the right to use the phone, but for some angelic reason, in that holy night, this guy let me call my parents and I knew/felt he would not report me. He was my earthly angel. My dad picked up the phone, and within 5 minutes, I was telling him all about this living hell, and more amazingly, I was totally guided to tell him, step by step, what to do in order to get me out of there, before its too late (before they force me to jump off their damn planes --because it is textually what they told me they would do--.)   How would I know who to contact? It was of course the voice of the Angels speaking through my heart.  I hung up.  A few weeks later, I was called in front of the barracks captain. I was the very first guy to be called to his office, so I knew something major was going on. From that day, every single man among the thousands of soldiers in the camp knew my name. The captain told me that he received a letter from the Elysees Palace, from the French Minister of Defense himself stating that I complained about being beaten up by officers in training. The Minister added in his letter to the barracks captain of Dieuze that in the event he would receive another complaint from me, he would investigate thoroughly, which could result in the permanent closure of the camp. The captain asked me whether this was my complaint, which I confirmed.

He then asked me "If I bring all the soldiers and officers in the middle of the yard of the camp, would you be able to point which officers have been beating you up?" I said with total and firm peace 'Yes."


        All the other men in my dorm wanted to give support and report the officers that were beating them also. These officers were taking lots of pleasures at abusing of their authority to render another man as a state of slavery. The big day arrived.  When the barracks Captain asked me to point the officers, the officers in training gave me a look, a sign and loudly whispered that they will kill me later on if I say anything. It was frightening at first but suddenly, such as the bright Light that I had seen during my Near-Death Experience at age 12, I felt in total peace and harmony with my Self, felt the strength of the Angels, of the Christ, of God within me, and I felt completely confident, safe and protected. I then pointed the officers. They could not believe I had just done that and braved their threats.

For that reason,I was the only one among the thousands of soldiers not to have the right to wear the paratrooper red beret. Everybody seemed to hate me, for dishonoring our camp but most probably because they did not have the strength I had found within me to fight for my rights, for being connected to the Divine.


        They sent me to the army hospital of the city of Nancy where I stayed for many weeks, on hold. Everyday single day, they did X-Rays on me.

It was their revenge. However I did not know I could have refused them also, for the sake of my health. They had to abuse once again. If hell exists on earth, I had found the men who create it. Like in the many hidden messages of the movie, AVATAR by James Cameron, those who pretend to fight against the enemy and call the others 'terrorists' are in fact the enemy/terrorists themselves. This applies so well to my experience with the army in France.  My compassion goes to the soldiers that go to the army or are deployed in war zones, and find themselves brainwashed by officers who abuse their authority and in which they lose their souls and their heartfelt connection.  After a few weeks in the hospital doing nothing but playing cards with other mates,
I was sent back to the camp to return the army clothing. In order for them to send me home before the end of my duty, they had told me that the only option for that would be to state me as 'foul crazy person', which could be dramatic for a person working in the Administration of the country (post office, some banks, city hall, governmental buildings, etc).  
I accepted since I knew I would never work in those places anyway.and I did not care whether on paper, I was considered under the French law as a unstable person (lol)  Since that 'instability saved me from hell, so be it!

I had to sleep there for one more night but one officer was in charge of my safety. I saw through an open door of the clinic of the camp all the mates of the dorm whom either had a broken leg or arm or a wrap around neck support . They did not see me. I did not go to talk to them.

At last, for the officers' last revenge, they had me miss the train to go back to Paris, which had me wait all night at the station waiting for the next train.  I had no money and the ticket that the army provided me with for that specific train was not valid anymore, so the controller gave me a ticket. That was their last low-rated revenge to me.


        Once again, the angels had saved my life. My mom admitted that my dad had totally left his job aside (as a farmer) for weeks in order to execute step by step what I (=the Angels) had told him to do, which worked out so wonderfully.


      The moral of this inedit and personal story is that when you are connected to who you truly are and to the power of what surrounds you, what is above you,  you are always safe, protected through the Divine guidance. Trust your inner voice. Your Higher Self sometimes may want to tell you something, so learn to listen to the Higher part of Your Self more often.


Happy New Year 2010

From my heart to yours,

Frederic Delarue
http://www.FredericDelarue.com 

YOUR HEAD OR YOUR HEART?


Your head
or your heart?  



We hear a lot "Follow your heart, not your head."

It sounds so easy to say it, but for many of us whom have taken the habit to plan and think way too much about everything, its a challenging task.

"Am I going to listen to what my heart tells me?"

Your head is most often ruled by the 'ego' in the story.

Your heart is the 'God within You', the "divine connection with the Source" talking to you. 
You feel and see with the eyes of your heart, which creates an instantaneous responseto any situation.


Your head (= the 'ego') may lead you to extreme situations where you are and/or feel controlled, but also confused, which ultimately gives you a good amount of anxiety, stress,  leading  to the #1 disease in the world = Depression! And you often feel depressed because your Higher Self, and the core essence of your Being knows that you are not living your own life. So you feel down to do that to yourself. Ego brings forth disappointment because of too much expectation, confusion, sense of being lost.

Your heart, however, brings forth the Joy, the radiance of your Being, because this is the 'Divine in You' talking to you.

Nobody else can tell me how my heart feels. Only me can feel that. So if you ask everybody for their own opinion about a subject/decision that could be done only through the heart, it is obvious that all these opinions from others may not ring  a positive bell within you, and may even let you more depleated and confused, because nobody else but you can feel what your heart feels.

When your heart opens up suddenly when thinking of a situation, and sparkles of millions of Joy within you and your body, you just pinpointed what makes you happy.

When we live daily by whats logical for the brain thinker, it may get hard and complicated. Simplifying your life with less thinking and more heartfelt moments may lead you to live your own life and therefore, feel totally happy and serene in any situation.

So do you wish to live by your head, or by your heart?

From my heart to yours,

Frederic Delarue
www.FredericDelarue.com


NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCE (Angels & Beings of Light)

NEAR-DEATH EXPERIENCE
 
 
Near-Death Experience
(Angels and Beings of Light)

ARE YOU LIVING YOUR OWN LIFE?

Are you living

your own life?





Returning from a business trip of 8 days to NYC, I felt like sharing about what I was able to observe.
NYC made me think of a mega ants nest. Like I mention in my book 'Eyes of Your Heart', I learned during a NDE at age 12 to see Life from different perspectives, angles, which enables me to see the bigger picture of things, events, situations, etc.  Many times, I feel like a complete stranger, observing people on earth, their behaviors, their attitudes, routine, etc.

Do you actually think you are accomplishing something big or not? Do you judge it? Does it really matter?
The truth is that it is only relative to your own small world. I do not mean to sound negative by saying 'your small world' but I take it as perception to a greater scheme of things, considering the planets and galaxies around and far from ours.
For us humans, we may think we do great things, such as Donald Trump may think he is accomplishing great things, by building Empires around the world, such as his mega Tower in NYC, however in the big scheme of things, that Tower is a tiny little 'dot' in the Universe. For the CEO of that Tower, it may be and mean a great deal of pride; If you walk by it, it may look impressive; But to a  far planet in the galaxies, it is nothing, or part of the whole such as a sand grain or dust in the desert.
It is all relative.
Ex: If you consider that your Universe is made of your home, your job and your partner, then any issue that will come up, related with any of these three matters will be a great deal/very important to you,  take a huge size in your life.
Makes sense?
Like for the ants, the Queen may think she is all that important, having her workers build up her Empire, but to most humans eyes, it is so little that we don't even see it. We may walk on a nest or hose water on a nest without noticing it.  [For the ants, its a great deal of a disaster, but for us, we did not even notice it.]

People in NYC felt like these worker ants, very active, always doing something, running all over the place, living in a bubble/dome of noises and distractions.
For someone living daily in this World, without taking time off to look back at what's important or essential in life, it can become very easy to live a life that is not yours, simply because you live the 'system of the City', swallowed in that world.  Noises being part of your daily life 24/7 always bring distraction from your own Self. Violent or tribal rhythmic music will easily bring forth disconnection, like demonstrated Dr. Masaru Emoto in his work with water and sounds (see pictures of crystals after exposing my first 3 albums  to water.)
For someone who is dis-connected from Self, it will be feel 'normal' or comfortable to continue and/or even to search for that pattern, because it is the known comfort zone.  Without being aware of the consequences: co-creating problems, dramas, issues of any kind, and to need to listen to more of this violent or tribal rhythmic music, or heavy drinking, drugs, and so forth. It can also be characterized by the constant need to have always tons of people around you, that you may call friends, or acquaintances, to fill up the empty space within you that makes you feel uncomfortable.

To life Your Own Life, Silence is a necessity!
Silence does not have to be pure silence around you, outside of you, but mostly within you!
Someone living in the bubble/dome of noises (low earthly vibration) may be more  susceptible to experiencing depression, anxiety, emptiness, etc.

What to do to live your own life?
* Listen regularly to a music that makes you feel uplifted, during and after wards;
* Take a walk in nature and listen to the Power of Silence.  If silence or being alone scares you off, go to a small park where there are some people and children and start focusing (not on people watching) but on nature, a tree, a flower, a bird, an ant, etc. Look at a leaf and zoom your entire attention in that leaf, to the extend to hear any sound or vibration radiating from this living leaf.
Practice, Practice, Practice... then eventually you will be ready to be alone in nature, which means you will be aware and ready to see/meet/feel all the living beings in nature.
To me, being alone only exist when you are not aware of your surrounding, or when you feel nothing besides you exist, or can communicate with you. This could mean a very depressive life than thinking there is nothing else but you.
I learned, during the first NDE I have experienced at age 12, that what we  see with our physical eyes is only 5% to 15% of what is!

I hope this little note helped you to develop a little bit more your awareness today :)

Remember that I am not imposing any ideas on you.
I am only sharing,
from my heart to yours :)
Musically Yours,

Frederic Delarue.
www.FredericDelarue.com

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Frederic Delarue
www.FredericDelarue.com


ORBS !?

ORBS !?








What are Orbs?
Have you ever seen Orbs appear in one of your pictures and thought it was instead dust, or that your camera lens was dirty?
An Orb seems to be a 'life form energy' traveling at extremely fast speed,and choosing special places, such as 'vortexes' to be.
You can take several pictures of the same place, tree, person, party, at seconds of intervals, and only in one picture,orbs may accept to show themselves in your picture.

If you ever took a picture and saw orbs (light grayish-whitish round spots), digitize it on your computer and zoom-in till you see what may be inside the round spot(s).  You may be surprised to see faces, and all kinds of different things.

Like in everything, if you are looking, chasing them (being in a desperate mode to see them), they may never appear on your pictures, because you will frighten them with that 'chasing energy'.
I mention in my book 'Eyes of Your Heart' that during my Near-Death Experience at age 12, I saw Angels and also Beings of Light in the dark tunnel. They were just part of the system we live in, being everywhere. Could they have been Orbs? Could Orbs be Beings of Light?

Orbs seem to appear in places with high frequency vibrations. It could be a quiet vortex ( I am not talking about busy touristic places where people search after vortexes, such as in Sedona), and be aware that a vortex can be right in your backyard, close to a nice powerful energizing tree, a beautiful and powerful rock in your garden that may radiate high frequencies, or a person that you know that has high frequencies, and it may just be you :-)
In this latter case, you probably attract Orbs in your Presence, and they may appear when you take a picture or when someone takes a picture of you.
PS: Re: Sedona, I felt the need to clarify that I have nothing against that place of course, but in general, in a very busy touristic area where millions of people seek after something 'spiritual', the real true spiritual beings tend not to be around that much, because mass of seekers become too distracting to them.
A friend of mine have pictures of Orbs and accepted to share them on my newsletter. However, for privacy, I painted their faces.
I zoomed in the Orbs in the pictures and you will see when you click on the link below what you can see inside the Orbs.
Enjoy them and look at your pictures. Maybe you will find them too!


It may take patience before you see something in the orb.
You may need to look at the orb for a longer period before seeing anything.

From my heart to yours,

Frederic Delarue.
www.FredericDelarue.com

MUSIC MEDICINE

MUSIC MEDICINE
Testimonial from a Music Therapist
I had written last month that the music that comes through me naturally and that I produce on CDs was being tested in hospitals. Here is a testimonial from a Music Therapist at a rehabilitation center hospital in Indio, California.
"The study of the effects of listening to music on human's thought, emotion, and behavior has been a curious topic for people a long time. The relationship between music and the mental health has been researched. Some researches indicated that there are positive effects of listening to music on the brain of human being. I am a music therapist - board certified, currently working at the acute psychiatric hospital. For treating people with mental illness, I organize and facilitate therapeutic music-related groups in which I use Mr. Delarue's music frequently, especially (1) Dolphin, A Message of Love, (2) Soaring with the Angels, and (3) Reflection, Dream Your Life, Live Your Dreams.

Reflection  CDDolphins... A Message of Love
Through my experiences, I have noticed that
his music have the strongest healing powers.

I would like to share some of my experiences:

'Dolphin... A Message of Love' has been found to have the strongest powers for purifying, balancing and toning. There was one patient who has been diagnosed with Schizophrenia. The patient has no insight at all, demanding to be discharged from the hospital. Affect was very labile, changed from crying to screaming and yelling to peers and staff.

I put the Dolphin CD as a background music,
and within 10 minutes,
the patient became calm and went back to the room.
This kind of behavior is very rare for this patient. Obviously, Dolphin, A Message of Love helped the patient to alleviate anxious mood.The another example for the effects of listening to 'Dolphin, A Message of Love' is to affect the body awareness. One patient reported chronic fatigue, due to lack of sleep induced by anxious feeling. I gave the patient assignments to listen to (track #10: 'From my Heart'), (track #11: 'Angels of the Sea'), and (#12: 'Reverence') from Dolphin, A Message of Love , and to draw a pictures with a color pen and pencils after listening to these three music pieces. This patient draw the mountains and river, and stated "This place makes me calm." After the session, the patient stated that he felt very calm and smiled. Also, the patient reported that the fatigue level has dropped. 'Soaring with the Angels' and 'Reflection' seem to have similar effects, which include soothing, calming, and inducing sleep. One day, a patient reported somatic pain and asked extra medications many times but was refused to receive due to exceeding the daily dose limit. This patient cried and screamed. I put the 'Soaring with the Angels' as a background music, and in a few minutes, this patient came near the music boom box from which this CD was being played. The patient listened to the music for a while, eventually lied down and took a nap without taking extra medication. Obviously, 'Soaring with the Angels' played a vital role in calming the patient's nerves, and soothing the patient's mind as well as inducing sleep.

I used 'Reflection, Dream Your Life, Live Your Dreams' during a relaxation group, and I received many comments from the patient. "This makes me calm," "more relaxed," and "stress free." Combined with deep breathing method brought positive results and the patient loved the activities. Also, I have noticed that the 'Reflection' CD helps the patients to surround themselves with positive music and thoughts. After listening to the music, the client showed more positve attitude and had positive comments.

I have known and used Mr. Delarue's music for only a month, and I have already observed many unbelievable and good effects of his music on the patients ' emotions, thoughts and behaviors. It is really important to choose the music carefully for the patients. 


When I "prescribe" the right music
from Mr. Delarue's CDs collection
to meet the patient's needs,
the result is a miracle.

Written by Sako Kamahara (August 8, 2010)

Posted by Frederic Delarue
www.FredericDelarue.com/musicmedicine.html

WHAT'S IN YOUR NAME?

What's in Your Name?

Is Your Name Important?


Last month, I was invited to a wonderful 5 day Spiritual Conference held this year in Washington D.C.   One evening, I gave a Special Event "The Music of Your Soul' Live Demo."
It is a very interactive event where we discuss about the importance of the name we are given at birth, and our Soul mission. Angels also chose people from the audience that accept to come on stage to demonstrate how listening/breathing/bathing in the musical vibrations of your own name may be life changing.  People in the audience can witness the process from before, during and after. Also, we exchange insights, messages anyone may have for the person on stage, or a feeling about the music that was played. I like to do this, as a way to help people in the audience develop and trust their inner guidance, their inner voice, and intuitions. When one is shy for saying something he has felt or heard in his heart, from fear to sound like a fool, someone may just say the very same thing, which in this case, will help the one who was afraid to speak, to trust his own intuition.  It is very enlightening and empowering for many.
What's in your name?

I talk about this in my book "Eyes of Your Heart" but I will rephrase the essential of it now, in case you did not have the opportunity to get the book yet.
Angels have kept telling me, since the Near-Death Experience I had at age 12 (when I encountered Angels and Beings of Light in the tunnel reaching out to the Light), that the name we receive at birth is essential to fulfill and accomplish our Soul's mission. Whoever is present at the moment of birth is divinely guided to give the new born, the best name, which contains the vibration/frequency for that baby to accomplish successfully her/his life's mission in harmony and peace.
Many of us live an entire life wondering what may have been their life's purpose, or spend an entire life trying so hard to know what special purpose they have in life... 
If only they knew that it may just be divinely hidden in their birth name...

Consider this for a moment, and please try to keep an open heart...  We remember that the first, middle (if any) and last name are essential to a full harmonious and successful life.  A life where you are certain TO LIVE YOUR OWN LIFE, and not the life of another.
A man has his first name, (middle name) and last name. The woman has the very same, until she decides to marry her husband. What happens?  She is told to let go of her last name to get her husband's name.

Consider this for a minute: Lets consider that the first, middle and last name are 1 each.
MAN: 1+1+1=3
WOMAN: 1+1+0 (because she lets go of her name at marriage)=2
Now, you may wonder why women were oppressed for so many centuries!?
Now, if the couple (man and woman) is totally in sync. at all levels, and continue to grow and glow each passing day, maybe it is not that very important. But in the case when the husband is controlling, somewhat authoritarian, etc, it may not be the best choice to carry the vibration and frequency of that name.  In this latter case, the woman whom is missing her last name, and carrying the name of an unstable man, may not live her own life anymore.
Does that make any sense to you?

Many have asked questions and I will try to answer them as clearly as possible:

* What happens if I keep my married name even though I am divorced from my husband?
Why would you carry the frequency and vibration of someone that you are not in sync. anymore and that you don't share a harmonious, peaceful life with? It is time for you to get your life back! And carrying your last name (at least in your heart and soul every day) may be life changing to you.

* What happens if I keep my married name even though my husband passed away?
If you had a beautiful relationship with your husband, and the marriage was very empowering and harmonious, you may consider to either keep his name, or to add to his name, your last name as well, like most South Americans women do.

* What happens if I change my name for an artistic reason, and because my last name was not pretty or people were always making fun of it?
If you are connected to the Source, and you have a stable and peaceful life, you may choose a name that will carry the same vibration than your last name. It will just sound prettier, but the vibration may well be the same.

* What happens if I create a spiritual name?
Same thing than for the precedent question, but if you change to a spiritual name because you do not like your birth name, and you keep anger towards that name, for whatever reason it might be, you will probably guide yourself to choose a name that will change the course of your destiny, and most of the time, not for your highest good.

* What happens if I change my name because I hate my father, or any male figure in your family that forces you to carry that name?
In that case, you might want to re-consider a lot of things before you go ahead and change your name for something else than you birth name.  If you keep anger, you cannot be connected to the Source at the same time, to your own Self, and therefore you will choose a name that will change the course of your life, and that is not for your best interest.  In this case, it is very important to do forgiveness prayers toward those who may have hurt you, to your Self. and release that anger in the Light of God, Christ, the Angels, etc.
Then once you are at peace, you may want to re-connect with your own Self and find the harmonious vibration and powerful frequency of your birth name.

Your own Name is your self-attunement tool, your self realignment... It reconnects you with your Self. It brings you whole and complete. It is essential to sing it, breathe it, rejoice it, carry it as if you were cherishing a new born.

From my heart to yours,
Frederic Delarue
www.FredericDelarue.com